Have you ever wondered what is it about sex that makes it so good at times. Valid there are times where sex feels disatisfying and horrible. But when you find that right person who can elicit a sense of euphoria in the bedroom, what is it about them or what they are doing to your body that makes it sooo fucking good? Perhaps its all the dopamine rushing through your brain that makes it feel good. Maybe its all the firing of nerves in your clit, your nipples and your lips (both sets) that makes your insides go wild. I find it that its honestly that its that invisible connection and chemistry between you and the other person. I know that sometimes we can have sex with a stranger and it can be the best sex in the world. But who are we kidding, the best sex is with someone who elicits our desires from the inside out.
When "our person" mearly touches skin to skin with us, our bodies respond with a jolt of invisible electricty that we call "nerve sensation". Its a powerful mechanism that scientist havent quite yet figured out. But its like a lightning bolt striking us! We feel it all over our bodies, in our nipples which become erect and hard to the touch, in our clit which flushes with heat and plumps, even in our stomach which we call butterflies. We like it. We yearn for more of it. There scent drives us mad, there skin makes us salivate because we want to taste them even though we know what they taste like already. Its like we cant get enough of them. So, is all of this simply lust? Not necessarily. This is also love.
Love. It has an invisble forcefield that demands attention. Whether that be physical, emotional or mental. But all 3 components drag our desire for the other person out and wants them near us. Many women need the emotional in order to move forward with the physical. At times that can be a hard task for someone who is afraid of vulnerability. But man, when both collide, the sex can be mindblowing because during the act you have this fire of vulnerability with allowing the other person to do to your body things that you dont do during daylight and you surrender entirely to their mouth and body. Then you have the physical appeal where each other is touching, fucking, tasting and pleasing each others bodies and touching areas that are forbidden yet wanted. Its a whirlwind of emotions and sensations which consistute to the description of making love with one another.
BUT....... it cannot happen with just anyone. These scenes have to be unraveled with that perfect person you trust emotionally, mentally and most importantly, physically. And finding that person can feel like a needle in a hay stack nowadays. So, where do we start looking for them....?
